If you're a toddler parent, then you've probably said the phrase "use your words" at some point during your child's tantrum or meltdown in an attempt to get them to communicate what they want or need. While this sounds like a totally logical way to support our toddlers during times of distress, it can actually cause even MORE problems and stress for both parent and child.
In this video, I'll tell you WHY saying this common phrase is a problem and what you SHOULD do instead to support your child during a tantrum or meltdown.
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Welcome to Pocketful of Parenting (formerly The Innovative Momma)! I’m Jess - a Parenting Coach, Certified Positive Discipline Educator, former preschool/kindergarten teacher & momma!
Parenting is TOUGH - especially in the early years where the sleep is little and the feelings are BIG. My mission is to help reframe the idea of the “terrible twos,” “threenagers,” and “fournados” to help parents LOVE LIFE WITH LITTLES!
I provide science-based information on your child’s developing brain to help you gain a better understanding and form a deeper connection with your little one. I’ll also be sharing tools you can use to help your child get through their big emotions while keeping your cool in the process. (Say “bye-bye” to yelling, bribes, threats & punishments!)
You’ll also find easy play activities to help support your child’s development across multiple areas, such as: fine and gross motor skills, cognitive development, social-emotional development, and language development.
