Patience is a key factor when taming an out-of-control toddler.
Step 1: Distract the child Distract the child from whatever's causing the frustration. Draw the child's attention to anything else – a toy, a book, or activity.
Step 2: Stay calm Remain calm and collected. Show the child you have control of the situation.
Step 3: Talk to the child Discuss the situation with the child. Show them you understand why they are upset.
Tip If the child is older than three, ignore the tantrum and explain that you will listen when they can use a normal voice.
Step 4: Remove the child Remove the child from the scene, whether it's a family gathering, a shopping mall, or grocery store. Pick up the child and physically remove them to a different surrounding.
Tip Reserve a time-out area in your home where the child will go to calm down.
Step 5: Be consistent Always be consistent with your actions. Never give in to an unruly child, or your child will soon rule your home.
Did You Know? As of 2008, spanking in public schools was still legal in 21 states and used frequently in 13.
